I was drawn into Greg’s story through his unashamed posture in talking about being a gay Christian and deeply committed to Jesus and His Word.
Committed Christian, Yet Undeniably Gay
Sheila Wray Gregoire on the Lies We’ve Been Taught about Sex & How to Recover What God Intended
In The Great Sex Rescue, Sheila addresses the lies about sex many Christian books and teachers inadvertently communicate.
Should I Confess My Sexual Sin to My Church?
Sometimes people ask me this question another way: “What sins should I confess to my church?”
Responding to Concerns about Sheila Wray Gregoire
Here is my final review of The Great Sex Rescue. In this video, I respond to some of the concerns people have raised about Sheila Wray Gregoire.
“How Do I Know I’ve Met ‘The One’?”
Growing up as a conservative Anabaptist, one of the common questions we discussed as young adults was, “How do you know when you’ve met ‘The One’?”
5 Signs You’re Not Having Sexually Healthy Romance
At the core of sexually healthy romance is connectedness with body and soul as a couple. Here are five signs your romance isn’t as healthy as it could be.
Social Work as an Act of Justice w/ Lowell Herschberger
I recently had the privilege of interviewing my friend Lowell Herschberger about his work as a social worker.
Date Sexually Free
The following article is an excerpt of my free eBook, Date Sexually Free. My wife and I wish we had learned these lessons before dating.
How Might “Duty Sex” Destroy Marriages?
Continuing our review of The Great Sex Rescue, we’re going to look at libido, sexless marriages, and sex as a transaction (i.e. “duty sex”).
Does Christian Sex Advice Promote Unhealthy Sexual Intimacy?
I’ve noticed a few common threads among books giving advice that hinders healthy sexual intimacy:
1. They tend to talk about sex from the male perspective.
2. They present the male sex drive as the only one that matters in the occasion.
3. They suggest that giving husbands good sex is the main way of keeping them free from sexual immorality.
4. They reduce sex to intercourse. (Spoiler: it’s so much more than just having intercourse.)
5. They perpetuate the obligation-sex narrative.
While each of these books has some good things to say, the underlying messages of what they say about sex seem to promote unhealthy sexual intimacy.
