As you may have observed, this month I am going through the top 10 most-read posts of the year. Number eight is the lead-in post to the ebook I published earlier this year, Is Touch in Courtship Wrong?
Incidentally, the book is 40% right now. That discount won’t last. In fact, neither will the eBook. At midnight tomorrow night I’m pulling it down, so if you haven’t read the book, read this post: 6 Powerful Principles for Understanding the Role of Affection in Courtship.
And if you’re not sure you even want to read the post, let me give you five quick reasons why you should:
- Every relationship is sexual; be sure to make them healthy.
- Somewhere along the line “hands-off” became the gospel for purity in courtship. But just because you’re hands-off doesn’t mean you won’t deal with sexual struggles. There’s a lot of immorality sliding in under the radar because couples are “hands-off.”
- Men are primarily sexually aroused by physical contact; women are primarily sexual aroused by emotional contact. In “hands-off” dating, we can end up raping ladies emotionally and walk away feeling that our hands are clean because we never touched them physically.
- Touch isn’t sin. Sometimes what is needed is less emotional aggression and a little more physical affection.
- This book helps you understand the role of physical affection in courtship.
How’s that for a sales pitch? So what are you waiting for? Go read the post. Buy the ebook. Tell your friends. And if you have already read it, tell me what you think in the comments.
